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Secret hook up with the new guy ..?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by cmd1600, Apr 1, 2016.

  1. cmd1600

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    Location:
    Oslo, Norway
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    Not sure if this is the right place to put this, but i'll try..

    I'm a 19 year old boy and currently a conscript in the norwegian military, which is relatively common among men and women my age. I have over the past year noticed that i get sexually attracted to both genders, so i've tried a couple of times to hook up with boys through the "******" app to see how it is and what it feels like. I think it's fun and i really like it, but i don't see myself in a relationship or a serious thing with a person of the same sex. So up until now it's been done quietly and i haven't planned coming out any time soon, even tho i think i might be bisexual.

    A few days ago a new guy talked to me on the ****** app, and it turned out he's also a conscript and just moved into the same camp i'm in. He's openly gay, and was looking for different things, also just hook-ups. We talked on the app for a while and he said it would be fun to rent a local hotel room one night this weekend, and just hang out there and fool around and stuff. He said there was no problem that i was hidden and he ofcourse wouldn't say anything. We haven't talked specifics, but i know we're talking about kissing, making out and bj's.. I know I would really have fun if we went, and i know he won't tell people and stuff, but do you guys think it's a bad idea? I'm thinking the minor things like if it'll be too awkward waking up the next morning for breakfast together and stuff, and the fact that i will probably see him alot since we're at the same small camp, and that this will be awkward and i'll then regret it?... I don't know, i havent done anything quite like this before, because the times i've been with guys before we've only met and done stuff and then I left.
    Have any of you had a friend you did stuff with secretly? Or been in a similar situation?

    Would really appreciate your thoughts.