I'm a 23 yrold gay man but still can't get aroused at the thought of being with another man (i feel like im not allowing myself ie homophobia) can I relax or lwt myself go enough to enjoy gay porn or just pics of guys or fantasies of guys? I think I'm gonna go on a porn strike until my body and mind cooperate
Hm, that's an interesting situation, can I suggest trying to find some LGBTI+ support groups in your area and seeing if you can talk some things out? While I am no expert on Chicago, from what I know it seems like a large city which would be bound to at least have one group or such. I know it must sound like a really shut off answer, but personally I feel it would be best for you to be able to physically talk to some people who wont rudely dismiss what your saying, and such, I think if you are around some more people in a simular situation, it might help you out a bit more, of course the community is still here for support and such, but I would reckon that just being around some guys could help a bit more Human connection and the ability to legitimately look at someone while you are talking and listen to someone is so special. Hopefully I was helpful, I could be wrong, but its something.
