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Please Help me understand

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Theoneaj, Apr 29, 2016.

  1. Theoneaj

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    I am 15. I am confused weather I am bi or not. I have never been attracted to other boys IRL. Although sometimes I end up watching gay porn. I go through like phases where sometimes I'm straight for like a months then a week I'm kinda gay. I don't understand. I really like girls and I don't feel gay after I have been speaking to hot girls. If I'm not confident enough for a while to talk to them I start jerking off at men and women also. Sometimes I get boners over men but the have to he naked or I have to be thinking gay thoughts. I could see my self in a relationship with a girl but defintwly not a.man. I was also thinking of having sex with a girl I know and I just need some opinions on it. I really can't tell if I'm bi or not. I am currently in one of these gay phases and it has lasted a while now. It generally happens in the school holidays when I feel gay
     
  2. littleraven

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    It's possible that you could be bisexual with more attraction to females.
     
  3. Linus

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    Time will tell, I suppose... Like littleraven said, I think you might have more of a romantic attraction to women. You might be bisexual but heteroromantic. Sexuality and romantic orientation are two very different things, by the way. You shouldn't be afraid to have sex with anyone, but sometimes it doesn't hurt to wait a few years. You don't have to have sex just to figure out or prove your sexuality.