Hello. I am starting to doubt myself if I only like men. I get these fluid feelings of what gender I like. I have dated a man once, but I was young and naive. I did really miss him when we broke up, but it was for the better. Anyways, why I'm confused: -I have thoughts of making out with women and men -I find men and women attractive, though I'm unsure if I consider them both for sexual reasons. I find many people beautiful/attractive, but it doesn't mean I want a relationship with them or anything like that -I sometimes want to be in a male role, but others I want to be in a female role in terms of sex -I have never thought of going on dates with women though, only men -I want to have my own kid, and I can't do that with a woman -I am more physically attracted to men, but emotionally attracted to women Maybe I'm bisexual then and have been denying myself this whole time? Usually my feelings on whom I want to be with fluctuate. Is there such thing as a fluctuating sexual orientation or something? I'm just so confused. I did the Kinsey thing and have gotten the unusual person one every time. I don't know what to think. No one can tell me whom I like, but any advice is appreciated.
Then I'm also confused if I have a different romantic orientation than sexual and that is confusing me too. I may be demiromantic too, but I'm still unsure with the actual gender or genders I like. Anyone have advice?
