Hello all, I am a married man who has been married to the same woman for 17 years. We have two wonderful children. My wife is one of two women I have ever dated and had sex with. Before getting married I had two sexual relationships with men. Since being married, I have chatted regularly in gay chat rooms and viewed gay porn. Our marriage has become increasingly sexless. With this, my urge to be with a man has increased. I would have always identified as bi-curious impressed, while mainting "straightness" in real life. Anyway, just 42, confused and looking for support/guidance.