...when you're queer in that "I don't find any of you remotely attractive, but I might be down to fool around (after a rigorous period of personal bonding protocols)" kind of way? Because I don't feel sexual attraction so much (I've never even had a "type"), but I'm not sex averse. I also generally need to get to know someone for a while on a basic, platonic level before I'm even interested in a potential date.
You could be both demisexual and demiromantic, or just on the asexual and aromantic spectrums in general. This blog here on tumblr is mainly an asexual blog but also has information about being on the aromantic spectrum as well.
