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Confused bisexual

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by funsized, May 29, 2016.

  1. funsized

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    I know I'm definitely bisexual. That much I have figured out. My mom has been a big help. But I'm still confused on if I just like males and females or if I like all people regardless of gender. How can I test that out to see what I like and don't like? Do any bisexuals have advice on how you figured out who/what you liked and didn't like?
     
  2. BrookeVL

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    Honestly, you just have to think about it. Google pictures of different genders, and ask ask yourself, "do I find this person attractive?" You kinda have to expose yourself to it, in some way.
     
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    So even just by exposing myself to different genders I can tell what/who I like and don't like. So I can start by doing that and then get into more specifics after I figure out what I like and don't like. (!)
     
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    Pretty much!
     
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    I think look at you and your feelings and what you feel in your heart. Young I knew I had attractions to male and female. Experience as well. Looking now at 33 I realized everyone I have been intimate with was because of their mind not the sexual organ between the legs.You know you the best. Be open to experience and see what happens.