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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Prochy75, Jun 3, 2016.

  1. Prochy75

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    Hello,

    i´m 23 and i´m straight. Or at least I always was. I never liked other men, never get turn on by seeing other man naked, or never had romantic feelings for other man.
    I do like woman, i get turn on when I see naked woman and I have romantic feelings for woman.

    But

    For some reason gay porn turn me on, if I see two man have sex I get boner. I watched gay porn to test my self if it turns me on and I thought that it will stop but it didn´t. Instead I started occasionally masturbate to gay porn.

    I dont know why it turn me on and it confuses me. Can somebody help me please? Is it normal for straight man to get turn on by seeing gay porn?
     
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    "Whatever floats your boat". Porn is NOT necessarily a sexual orientation indicator. As long as you don't want men in your sex life you shouldn't question yourself. If you do, then you're most likely bisexual.
     
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    It just means that you get turned on by two guys having sex, but you don't want to be one of those guys.

    A lot of gay guys like straight porn, but aren't straight themselves.

    The only reason its so confusing is because most straight guys won't admit it, so you are left to think that you are the only one.

    Enjoy your porn. You are just as normal as anyone else :slight_smile:
     
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    Porn is not a sexual orientation indicator. Some gay guys are turned on by straight porn and vice versa. It is totally normal. As you said, you are not attracted to men, you are'nt turned on by men. So you are probably straight.

    I have straight friends who watch gay porn, but they admit that they are'nt attracted to men. Some straight guys do watch straight porn, but most of them won't admit it.
     
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    Hmm, porn itself isn't an indicator of sexuality (many lesbians prefer gay male porn, straight women lesbian porn, and I've even heard of a straight guy or two who enjoy gay male porn), but maybe there's something more going on to cause you to question yourself?
     
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    pornography can be highly addictive and can lead to escalated taboo breaking and thrill seeking. it can also deaden us to the outside world.
    Hard as it may be, many people take a break from it (there are many online sites and help groups for this) and find when they let themselves reboot, the desire goes away.
     
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    It could just be the fact that it's different and foreign to you, that's why it turns you on, it could have nothing to do with the fact that it is two males. I used to watch straight porn for some reason, could never figure out why.
     
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    Probably because it's all over the place and has men in it :lol:
     
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    No, I specifically liked Cytheria who could squirt. It was weird, she's like a watergun.
     
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    My interest in gay male porn is partly due to them being unlike me. I do not like watching women have sex on screen even though I love having sex with women. One possible reason: when the porn is too similar to yourself, the tendency to compare yourself could be distracting. It's complicated and there is probably more than one reason that the porn you like doesn't match your orientation.
     
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    Not sure how accurate this is, but I read somewhere that straight men are often turned on by other men's genitals because it's seen as just "sexual" rather than "masculine" by the brain. So you could be completely straight and attracted to feminine features but still be into male genitalia.
     
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    I'm bi/pan, but I vastly prefer gay porn over any other.
    Because I know what a male sex organ and orgasm feel like, it makes it easier for me to connect.
    Doesn't mean I don't watch some straight or lesbian porn, but mostly gay.

    tl:dr: your porn preferences do not necessarily represent your actual interests for sexual intercourse.
    This is also true for fetishes.