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do u feel more shy in front of men or women

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jaymmm, Jun 7, 2016.

  1. Jaymmm

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    do u feel more shy in front of men or women?

    me: women :icon_bigg
     
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    Men.

    I can be such an awkward wreck around guys :lol:
     
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    I feel shyer in front of girls. It's easier to me to be friends with guys because I feel more comfortable talking them, while girls often make me freeze up and I get nervous trying to say anything, so I just let them do the talking while I nod and say, "Yeah," every so often. It's funny, really, how differently I act in front of my male friends in comparison to in front of my female friends.

    But I'm shy around both boys and girls; I get social anxiety.
     
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    Definitely girls. I'm a tomboy, so I'm more comfortable around guys. Girls are harder to talk to, but they understand. But for the most part I get nervous around girls.​
     
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    I'm shy around everybody. People are hard to understand.

    Otherwise, I'm marginally more comfortable around girls because a) I was in a girls' school for 10 fucking years, and b) I don't get accused of hitting on girls when I just talk to them.
     
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    I say both men and women, but it really depends on their character.
     
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    Definitely men.

    Most of my friends are women, they always have been. I don't like the whole alpha male struggle thing, it throws me off. Girls are just easier to get along with for me.
     
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    Both, but more men than women I would say
     
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    It depends totally on the person but I have to say, more so women..
    Maybe it's just at my school, but most teenage girls are a little intimidating to me.
     
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    Depends on the person but I have always felt more comfortable talking with a woman on deeper thoights or sexual things than with a guy.
     
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    I'd say its about the same both ways for me, i'm just generally kinda shy until i find something to talk about.
     
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    Girls. 100%. I dont know what it is for me with guys, i just don't get shy.
     
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    I'm not sure, I guess men slightly more but not by much.
     
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    Women. I don't understand them much and don't know what to expect. Some of them feel like a mystery I am never gonna solve... it makes me curious though. :icon_wink
     
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    Definitely men, I am so much more comfortable around other girls.
     
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    I'm more shy in front of men that I like.
    I can tell someone off or be the jokiest guy in the room, but bring in that guy I have crush on and watch me turn to quiet mush.
     
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    Probably men, since everything turns into a contest with them. It would be highlighting exactly how I'm different and why I'm uncomfortable.
     
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    I'm more shy around dudes but that's going away now because I've got more male friends lately. I hadn't really interacted with any guys a whole lot for like four years (all my friends in high school were girls until recently) so that was probably why. When faced with speaking to a cute girl I start stuttering and I get all awkward.