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I don't know if I'm bisexual or lesbian?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Lovisa, Jun 8, 2016.

  1. Lovisa

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    As an adult, I've had experience being in relationships with both genders. It seems the only guys I am attracted to are male strippers. Otherwise, I am not interested in guys for romantic means. With women, I am attracted to them sexually and emotionally.

    So my question is... I kinda like guys but like women more. This is really confusing. I like women emotionally and sexually, and with guys I only like them sexually.

    Would this still categorise me as bisexual because of sexual attraction to both genders? Or there has to be some emotional/ romantic attraction to both genders as well?

    I hope I'm making sense. haha :lol:
     
  2. HM03

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    If you find both sexually attractive, then it sounds like youre bi :slight_smile:
     
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  3. BrookeVL

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    Bisexuality only really requires you to be attracted to both in some way, beyond just platonic friendship.

    So yes you are still bi, just with a strong preference. :slight_smile: