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Advice for young in questioning

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by boasts, Jun 10, 2016.

  1. boasts

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    Ok so I'm only 13, but I've been seriously questioning my sexuality. I thought I was really into girls (btw I'm male), but lately I've been seriously attracted to men. I really want to find out my sexuality soon so I don't just confuse myself later down the line. My parents are against the LGBT community, but one day I hope to come out to them. I only have one friend who I think would support me, and I hope to out myself to him first. Usually I see myself in a relationship with a man when I'm older, but also see myself with a female. I also tend to yern for a friendship with a female that I can relate with. I don't know what I want, but I might just be thinking too much into this. Thanks for any help.
     
  2. Randy

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    Always nice to see a fellow Texan in these forums :grin:

    As for discovering your sexuality, there's no rush man. Like I didn't realize til I was in my late teens/early 20s. I just put it on the back burner and put my focus where it was needed at the time (academics).

    I notice you mention you don't care if your future partner is male or female. You may classify as a bisexual in the romantic realm. But features of what gender do you notice the most and tend to fanticize the most about when you dream or daydream?
     
  3. SecretLilCj21

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    You sound bisexual.
     
  4. SimonSnow

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    Simple. Like moi, you got your sex drive at 12/13. I exclusively want guys which makes my label gay. Do you want sex/romance with females as well?