So I met this guy this year and he graduated. There where rumors that he was bi-sexual but they never where confirmed. One night I got drunk and I messaged him asking to give him a blow job. He replied saying he couldn't answer that or he would feel wrong and like he was taking advantage of me. I only talked to him about one other time to apologize for saying that. I recently realized that I do want to give him a blow job but I don't know how to ask him. I'm not sure if he is into guys and I feel lik I'm annoying him when I do bring it up. Please help I need advice on what to do. P.S. Me and him are friends
How about meeting in person, maybe near a park or someplace private? When you're with him, get physically close to him, touch hm on the leg, brush your arm against his, something like that. See what his reaction is when u touch him. If he moves away, it'd indicate he's not into u or it's not the right time & situation. If he warms to the touch, it'd indicate he likes you. If he seems to like u, u could suggest something more intimate. Maybe you'd want to go someplace more private. Our bodies don't lie. It's a lot less awkward meeting in person than talking to him about a BJ … & more likely that u 2 could get physical! Good luck!