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Idk if I am straight or bi nor how to experiment with guys period

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by AustiGman12, Jun 25, 2016.

  1. AustiGman12

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    I am a very shy 17 yr old guy from Hermosa beach California and idk what I am.
     
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    Can you provide just a bit more of information like how you feel about one sex vs. the other sex and the like? Knowing how you feel about the sexes can often reveal what you truly are. I know you said you are shy but please also know that it's hard to provide advice going off of one sentence of information.
     
  3. NoXsOrOs

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    Um, more details...
    But I recommend looking within you, then within the past experiences with boys; and girls. Do you happen to fantasize? What parts really turns you on? Fun little thing to do is look through your search history, do you mostly look up men; or women?
    Whilst I'm no expert one of my personal cue's is,
    Imagine having an intimate relationship with someone, how would you connect emotionally, physically, and mentally. Does gender come into play?
    Ultimately experiment.
     
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    Also if you feel compelled to, you can download that well-known application for gay men and use that as a tool for you experimentation (If using, use with caution). With experimentation, I heavily suggest you be upfront with your intentions with whomever you're doing it with. Most guys are understanding of people in your situation and they will proceed cautiously.
     
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