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I have no idea...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by lizzie2000, Jul 14, 2016.

  1. lizzie2000

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    So lately, I've had this weird feeling...
    Some days I like girls, but other days I like both girls and guys... so I really don't know what to call myself.
    Also, when ever I talk about me liking girls over guys, I get this anxious feeling and I feel really vulnerable and I just don't really know how to get over that feeling.
    I would really love some help if you can!
    Thanks.
     
  2. questions4ever

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    Don't feel pressured! It's ok to be confused. Bisexual/pansexual is a spectrum. Some bi/pan people like guys more or girls more or switch day to day so you definitely fit under the umbrella term of bi and possibly pan. feeling anxiety about this is natural AND don't take it too serious. Enjoy this time of exploration. Wishing you the best of luck xoxo
     
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    Thank you questions4ever!
    That advice really helped me!
     
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    I consider myself bi, but generally find more women attractive than men. But today I saw a guy out riding his bike, and he had a great looking butt. It doesn't have to be 50/50 all the time.

    Don't get too caught up in labels. Take a deep breath and remember there are lots of people who feel just like you do.
     
  5. lizzie2000

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    That's what I tend to do. I just get to caught up in labels that I don't really know what to do with myself.
    Thanks for the advice, I'll be sure to take it.