Hey, this is the first time I've ever written anything like this. I know people hear must be bored of people saying there confused, but I am. And I'd really like some advice on what people think. Basically, I've always thought I was straight. But looking back. Maybe I wasn't as straight as I thought. I'm defo more interested in same sex relationships then I have been before. And without wanting to get graphic, I get off to gay and bi porn more and more often. I don't no if it's the link of it being naughty that I'm into. Or if I'm really into guys. I would really thank any views or advice if anyone has the time and wants to give it. Thanks a lot
What you like in porn doesn't necessarily translate all that well to what you like in real life. Can you imagine holding a guy's hand, kissing a guy, being in a relationship? You can take your time to figure out what your orientation is, there's no hurry. I know it can be stressful to be confused but remember, there's nothing wrong with you and you can take all the time you need to figure this out.
I honestly don't no the answer. Being a relationship, I don't think so. But I could see myself kissing a guy, seeing as I've done that before. I really am mostly into girls. Just now and again I seem to be really into the idea of being with guys. I don't really no what I except to get from this. But thanks a lot for posting tho. ---------- Post added 17th Jul 2016 at 01:47 PM ---------- Also, I'd love to chat to more gay and bi people. My friendship group is, shall we say, very straight. And I think it's help to be able to talk to more open minded people
Like Mariana said - it's better to focus on who you'd see yourself in a relationship with rather than using porn as a guide. It might take a while to figure out. If every now and then you're really into the idea of being with guys, then you're probably every now and then actually into them There are barriers that people have put up sometimes - whether they're aware of it or not - that stop them from pursuing same sex relationships or attractions. I've seen people initially experience just sexual attraction without any sort of romantic feelings, but then as they've accepted their feelings more, romantic feelings are actually there, just suppressed, or vice versa. Anyway, keep it at the back of your mind and don't focus on it too much. Just don't stop yourself from feeling whatever seems natural to you if you start to get a crush or are attracted to someone. Hope that makes sense, haha!
