So a few minutes ago I was watching the new Suicide Squad trailer and I don't what happened but everything just sort of clicked and now I'm about 99 percent sure I'm a lesbian. I've been kinda on and off about if I'm gay or if I'm bi but I just kinda happened and I'm really suspicious about it so when/how did you fully realize when you were you?
The Suicide Squad trailer? I think for me it was just a realization of and acceptance of the fact that I do indeed flirt with men and find some of them attractive. Not all, but not zero.
I had only ever had close male friends and any girls I became friendly with soon drifted away (and at the time I didn't know nonbinary or agender people existed) - as such, I only developed feelings for males, since I don't get "instant attraction" and need to become close to people first. It was when I got an extremely close female friend and became head over heels that I realised I actually don't care about what someone is and it doesn't affect my ability to be attracted to them.
