hello! recently i've been questioning if i'm gay or not because i was researching how other people knew THEY were gay, and there were similar signs. for example, every relationship i've had with a guy has crashed and burned. i didn't like when they would hold my hand or kiss me or whatever and i never wanted to "do it" with them. also, when I'm out in public i find myself staring at girls more than guys. all of this sounds a little cliche, i realize.but i would appreciate a little info. are these signs that i'm gay? i say this in the least condescending way possible; i'm not against myself being gay. i am just unsure. thanks for listening
Hi there, from what you've said, it seems that you could be gay or possibly bi. I've never been in a relationship but I know what you mean about not having that desire to be intimate with the opposite sex. In my opinion that's a good sign that you'd prefer to be with girls, especially if you find yourself looking at girls a lot more than guys
