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The idea of being a lesbian

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by hotblue, Jul 31, 2016.

  1. hotblue

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    Location:
    Colorado
    Gender:
    Female
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    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    I came out to some out of town friends as a lesbian last week. :eusa_danc

    Problem is, sometimes I feel like I'm not completely lesbian. But I've accepted myself as a lesbian. I like the idea of exclusively being attracted to girls. Except I feel like if I come out as a lesbian I'll be denying some other part of myself that sometimes finds guys attractive.

    I don't have anything against bisexuals or any other kind of sexuality. I just feel stable in having a specific gender to want. People have told me to not label myself yet, since I'm still young and have plenty of experimenting to do before I'll know. But not having a label makes me feel without direction.

    :bang: Anyone got some advice?
     
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  2. Chiroptera

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    Well, labels can be confusing, so, as you have heard, don't worry to much about them.

    If you are comfortable with the "lesbian" label, feel free to use it! Remember that you can always change it later if you realize it doesn't describes you well. :slight_smile: