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Confused bisexual

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Emmabi, Aug 3, 2016.

  1. Emmabi

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    Hi! So like most people on here I am confused. I think I may be bi. I defiantly like boys and have had several crushes on them. Secretly though, I have always thought what it would be like to date a girl. What I'm confused about is that I have never had a crush on a girl but I always feel like it was "right" whenever I think about dating girls or if I see an attractive girl online. Just because I havnt really had a crush on a girl, does that mean that It's just a phase? I don't really think it is but I need advise.
     
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    In a situation like this, whatever you truly think it is, you're probably right. Don't do anything because you feel you should. Do what feels natural.
     
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    I'm the same,i've been on porn addiction,and some one night stands with men,and i thought fuck this should be a phase,never thought i would fancy a girl and also maybe i wouldn't be able to perform, i lost my v card at 24,things seems the same but theres clear view afterwards.
     
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    there's no pressure to define yourself! even if you're attracted 99% to men and 1% to women, you can still label yourself as bisexual and be right in doing so. give yourself time, things may become clearer as you progress through life. but remember, you don't have to have had any crushes on girls to be considered bi - you don't need any form of 'proof' for your attraction to be valid. and furthermore, you can label yourself as bi now, and then if you realise later on that you're not, you can always just change the label you use for yourself! sexuality is often very fluid and your journey of discovery allows for you to change your mind as you understand more about yourself with time. best of luck
     
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    This is hypocritical coming from me but really try not to dwell on it so much. You are what you are, even if you're not sure what yet. Enjoy life in the mean time, it's ok to date both guys and girls.