1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

What is aesthetic attraction?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by PerdHapley, Aug 8, 2016.

  1. PerdHapley

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Feb 27, 2016
    Messages:
    62
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    London
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    A few people
    I've seen the term "aesthetic attraction" floating around and being used on this website for quite some time so today I decided to Google it but the blog post I read about it was incredibly confusing to me.

    I don't know whether I'm being really dense but I don't understand it. Once I dug deeper, it appeared somehow more complicated than I thought. What does aesthetic attraction mean? And how is it different to other types of attraction?
     
  2. HM03

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 2, 2013
    Messages:
    2,625
    Likes Received:
    508
    Location:
    Pergatory
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I saw this analogy once, it's weird, but I find it works. It's like a flower, flowers can be really pretty, but nobody thinks sexually about a flower :lol:
     
  3. Creativemind

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Sep 4, 2015
    Messages:
    3,281
    Likes Received:
    411
    Location:
    Somewhere
    Gender:
    Other
    Gender Pronoun:
    Other
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    It means you find someone good looking.

    100% of all human beings feel aesthetic attraction to men and women to some extent, but what a lot of people on this site don't understand is that it doesn't affect your sexuality or your number on the kinsey scale. For example, if a lesbian feels aesthetic attraction to men, she is still a kinsey 6 as long as it stops there. She has to be open to either sexual fantasies, sexual experiences, or romantic experiences with the opposite sex to be kinsey 5, but it would not be enough to the extent of a bisexual.

    I feel aesthetic attraction to babies, kitties, and my sister, but I am not a pedophile, zoophile, or incestuous :slight_smile:
     
  4. iiimee

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 12, 2014
    Messages:
    51
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    In my imagination.
    What the other people say, except I admit that I have had sexual thoughts about a good looking book before. XD Jk... maybe. :wink:
     
  5. PerdHapley

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Feb 27, 2016
    Messages:
    62
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    London
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Sorry for replying so late guys (I've had a busy week) but thank you for explaining that for me. You summed it up very clearly and nicely in a few lines haha :grin:
     
  6. Kira

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 9, 2014
    Messages:
    1,623
    Likes Received:
    16
    Location:
    Georgia
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Misread the title as "Atheistic attraction" and was confused for a second.

    I can understand both aesthetic attraction and atheistic attraction. :lol: