I don't know what came over me but for a moment I fantasised about having a vagina and I was with a man if you know what I mean and now I keep thinking about the few seconds when it happened. Is this normal or am I just loosing the plot? I just hope it's a one off but this thought scares me. Advice please
Many lesbians imagine having a real penis (not just a strap) and penetrating a woman with it. In fact, I've known many lesbians who have "penis envy." It's a real thing! You aren't crazy. You don't need to be scared, and you certainly don't need to obsess over it. It's entirely normal to imagine yourself as the opposite gender, especially in a sexual way.
