I'm married and we have been having trouble but i also have been thinking about coming out lately. I've never told anyone but i think he knows. but ever since these feelings have come to the surface i have no interest in intercourse. we have been together for a while anyways; i finally broke after years of emotion and sometimes physical abuse. this hiatus i think help me realize what i really want. but even that doesn't turn me on anymore. its making deciding what to do all the more harder.
