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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by seeastar, Oct 1, 2016.

  1. seeastar

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    Location:
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    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    So I was biologically born female, I'm 14. I told myself that I was gay, which I definitely am. The problem is that I don't feel like I want to be male or female. I am not girly whatsoever, haven't worn a dress since 4th grade. I dress like a guy, bowties, button-ups, I wish I had more boy clothes but I'm kind of scared to ask. I hate my body and no one has seen me without clothes and with me trying to make my chest as flat as possible for going on 4 years. My parents don't get why I always wear a leotard and a button up(to make my chest flat). They mention it to therapists and it makes me so mad because they really don't get it. I wish my parents and sister would just stop telling everyone because it's very embarrassing, but I can't tell them the real reason. They've made themselves believe that it's for "comfort". I wish I could just wear a normal t shirt without being so uncomfortable so bad. Anyways, I do only like females so is there a name for this?
     
  2. YuriBunny

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    Is your question referring to a name for your orientation? You could go with gynephilic (romantically attracted to females) or gynesexual (sexually attracted to females).
     
  3. Nightdream

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    Sounds like something you should ask in the Gender Identity and Expression for better answers... You could be transgender. By the way, you could use the gynephilic/ginesexual labels for your sexual orientation if it makes you feel more comfortable.