i've been thinking about something weird lately.. but i don't know how to explain it! is same sex attraction different from homosexuality? because i think that if i was a guy i would be gay.. i find gay relationships so exciting (i mean with gay women too) and when i see a straight couple it feels like something is wrong like they don't belong to each other..and i feel the same think when i think myself with a guy.. like we don't fit! something similar to what straight people think about gay people.. is this normal? i don't think it is! i would like to hear your thoughts
It's a difficult question to answer and depends on the situation. Technically, I'm gay and I like straight couples. They're cute as fuck. So are M/M and F/F couples. No preference really. But I wouldn't be in a straight relationship because It's not my attraction or interest. Kind of a turn-off. I think disliking the idea of straight relationship in GENERAL, is more of an extremist view that doesn't really correlate to actual homosexuality itself. Some gay people like straight couples (as long as they're not involved), some straight people hate seeing straight couples (think yaoi fangirls), some gay people are just put off by seeing straight couples because they grew tired of heteronormativity.
Yeha I currently have this weird warped thing in my head where sometimes straight couples seem like such an odd concept to me.
I think that is a little unusual. Not necessarily wrong but definitely unusual.. not sure how serious of a feeling it is for you. Normally when we are secure in our identity it doesn't bother us for people to be different than us. But then maybe it's just because you're gay that being gay is something you relate to more? That would make a lot of sense as well. Like, you just don't see yourself in straight couples so it doesn't do anything for you.
I experience this too! I keep thinking that if I was a guy I would be gay. Something about straight couples just seems odd to me.
