Hi guys! I'm a teen male. I am extremely confused and stressed about my orientation. I was straight till the last year. But now I'm confused. I check out women and notice any attractive lady (maybe because of habit). I rarely check out guys. I am not sure if I would be in romantic relationship with a guy (maybe cultural influence). Whenever I watch straight porn, I tend to focus on the penis but don't get turned on by gay porn (maybe denial). And my thoughts about sex with a man is like 'hell yeah, let me go down on you' . And with women like 'ok, let's do it ' . I don't really know if I like men bodies but I love dicks. I like female bodies but not sure if I like vaginas
It will help you validate your fantasies and sexual attraction once you do it. So I suggest that you do it with hot girl who's not shy but comfortable in sex. Same with men. The reason why I'm saying this is, so that you'll have a good experience with both gender. That way you can tell which one you enjoy, want more. Goodluck.
Lora says do it. I tend to agree, if you're curious. But the additional question I have is that i sense you are pushing yourself in this direction, for a reason I can't quite figure out from your first post. The only clue that you wrote was that you focus on the penis. If a straight guy watches straight porn, there isn't any law or rule that forbids you to look at the male parts. Of course, I started out just like you. When I started to look at porn (before the internet) it was always the male I looked at. Not just the penises, but the whole guy. This gave me a clue that those middle school fantasies I had when I was masturbating might be a clue that something more was going on. So I guess, to sum up, I can't tell whether your stress is the result of guilt, or "lust."
I can't really do it with a girl, I don't have any girlfriend. And I don't want to do anything with a prostitute. I have done a little stuff with guys and I enjoyed it, a lot
No one here can tell you if you are gay or bi. We can only assist you in figuring that out for yourself. The good news is that you seem to have determined that you are definitely not straight. So, yay for that! It's a good start. Experimentation is probably the best way to determine your sexuality. That might take some time if, as you point out, you don't have a girlfriend. I'm not sure you need a girlfriend unless you don't feel comfortable with it being casual. My best suggestion to you is to relax about it and try out sex with both men and women. That should tell you what you need to know.
