I don't know how to describe this but I get wet down there and aroused when I fantasize about having sex with a man. Most of my fantasies as a teen involved myself and guys, but I also remember fantasizing me being the man and cuddling/having sex with a woman. When was younger, I would get a warm reaction in my stomach and sometimes become sexually aroused by seeing attractive guys. This was when I was 9-15. After that, I started noticing women as well. The thing is, I get this gut feeling when I see an attractive woman and if i see a naked woman body I do feel warm down there. But this rarely happens with men. I get aroused/excited by a mans touch or personality, but very rarely do I get that gut feeling when seeing an attractive man? I just feel confused right now, its like my sexuality changed when I was 15.
I wouldn't say that your sexuality has necessarily changed but if it has that's ok because that happens. Also, it's pretty normal to like both genders but have a more romantic attraction to one or the other. Same with sexual attraction.
Yep, romantic and sexual attractions don't have to match up. You can love a certian type and, want to have sex with a totally different type.
