Hi there I'm a 22 years old guy, and I'm still not 100% sure about my sexual orientation. my first sexual experience was about 7 - 8 years ago , i was 14 at the time . It was with a friend i had back then . HE was 13 .. we use to do all kind of stuff ( but never all the way ) . ( i was mostly the top . And tbh i was only doing it because it felt good and i was horny all the time . I wasn't attracted to him what so ever . That same year i also did some stuff with this girl next door . She was 20 years old . and i was very attracted to her . And it felt better than it did with my friend. ( we didn't go all the way as well . Mostly hand stuff ) . But then we moved from our old house to a new one in a whole new neighborhood. And from that point untill now . I still haven't done anything sexual with anyone. BUT as i got older, i feel like I'm more attracted to men ( OLD MEN ) than i am to girls now. most of the time when I'm watching porn . It'll be gay porn ( daddies stuff ) . I feel like I'm attracted to old men because my relationship with my dad wasn't so intimate. ( he passed away 5 years ago ) But yeah most of the time watching porn it'll ve :eusa_doh:ay porn . BUT sometimes . Gay porn will be i huge turn off for me. And i switch to straight porn . I'm really confused. I mean i find it really easy to get a poner watching a naked old man . But with girls she must be really hot and my type and stuff . Also , when i think of men i only think about the sex . But with girls i think about other stuff than sex . Like when i see my future . I Do not want to be with a man . At ALL . But eh i dunno .. sorry for my bad grammar and stuff . Also sorry if talked too much . It just i never shares this with anyone . And I NEVER will. Thanks.
You sound bisexual with a preference for older men but only you can determine that for yourself. For me, it took some experimentation and deep reflection to determine what you like and what you don't like. I'm gay and I can never get a boner for a girl no matter how hard I tried.
Hey Bi x, From what you wrote, you seem to have attractions to both men and women, which could fall into the Bi label, if you feel a need to label yourself. Ultimately, understanding and accepting your sexuality is really only important for you. Labels can be convenient primarily on those occasions when you feel a need or desire to explain your sexuality to another person. This video has a good discussion about what Bisexuality is, so you might want to check it out: Are You Bisexual - Quiz Everyone comes to an understanding of their sexuality at their own pace and on their own timeline. If you browse the LGBT Later in Life forum here on EC, you will find many stories of people much older than yourself who were/are just coming to an understanding and acceptance of their sexuality. For myself, it wasn’t until I was 23 years old that I understood that I was Bisexual. And it wasn’t until two years later that I truly became comfortable with and accepted that fact. I hope this helps you a little. Take Care. Stay strong and proud!
Just based on what you wrote, I'm going to say bi, perhaps with a male preference (Kinsey 3-4 perhaps?)
