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Please held. Very confused.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Bellac, Oct 20, 2016.

  1. Bellac

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    Hello I'm an 18 year old girl and currently in high school. My best friend is a lesbian and she kind of has a girlfriend too. I have always been attracted to guys and I'm sure I'm straight and I have a boyfriend whom I love very much.

    But since recently I've been having sexual dreams about my best friend. Kissing her and stuff and I'm really confused. Does this mean I'm bi?? Please help.

    Thanks.
     
  2. Smores

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    I don't think that necessarily means you are bi. I think you need to ask yourself how you feel about her in a romantic and/or sexual way. Also, how do you feel about women in general?
     
  3. Really

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    It matters what you think and feel while you're awake. Have you ever had a dream where you were flying? Doesn't make you an airplane. :wink: