So I kinda just want another perspective because I'm not sure if I am bi and I'm too nervous to talk to my friends about it. So I'm a girl and when I was younger I thought I was gay but then I didn't know much about the lgbt community and it was kinda used as an insult by my friends so I was scared and really didn't want to be, so I wanted to pretend I wasn't. The reasons I thought I was gay: I only get turned on by lesbian porn and because I found female bodies much more attractive than male. Because I was worried or whatever I dated guys to try and hide it. I came to terms with it and got over all that stuff though but now I think I'm bi because I got really turned on by my ex when I was making out with him etc and because now I find more guys attractive. But I only really am attracted to traditionally 'manly' ish men and girls that are quite feminine. Now I find people from both genders attractive but with guys it's more in a sexual way whereas with beautiful girls it's more like I just want to stare at them. Idk maybe it's because I only really have experience with guys? I have got turned on thinking about both genders. So what do you guys think? Thanks in advance <3 Chat conversation end
Hey, female bisexual here. I'm thinking you're bisexual. You've stated you're attracted to both genders sexually, and that's what being bi is all about. Gender is a wide spectrum. Maybe you're attracted to guys more than girls or vice versa. Just as long as you find yourself attracted to both, you fit the definition. If you experience sexual attraction toward guys only, then you could be heterosexual and biromantic. It might do you good to look up a list of orientations if bisexual doesn't cover it.
If you are attracted to both men and women you are bi. It's as simple as that. Though porn isn't a great indicator of your sexuality.
