what do you think i am?

Porn isn't your sexuality. Why did you have sex with another guy?

 

SkyWinter is correct, porn doesn't indicate what you are attracted to. Watching sexual acts arouses people in general - some common examples are asexual people who watch porn but are not attracted to the people involved in the acts, and lesbian women who watch gay male porn because they find it more realistic and fulfilling than straight/lesbian porn (which is aimed at straight men and generally unrealistic).

Do you fantasise at all? If you do, what are your fantasies normally about? Do they feature men at all, or are they only about women? If you do think of men/if you can consciously think of men in the future, do the fantasies involving men give you more fulfilling or intense orgasms than the fantasies involving women? Or is it mostly less fulfilling or intense, or "mechanical" feeling (ejaculating, but not much of an orgasm)? Doing this can give you a good idea of where your attractions lie - make sure that you aren't watching porn throughout this process, however, since you might end up imagining what you've recently seen rather than creating your own fantasies.

Do you know what your reasons were for sleeping with men? Was it curiosity, or did you feel attraction towards them, or something else? If you've also had sex with women, how would you compare the two - was the sex with men more/equally as fulfilling or intense as the sex with women, or was it more "mechanical" and less fulfilling? Liking sex in general wouldn't mean you're gay or bisexual, since it could be purely stimulation based, but your feelings surrounding the sex and the people you were doing it with could be somewhat of an indicator.

 

Enjoy any kind of porn you want, doesn't mean that's your orientation.

Imagine your ideal life long partner, the one you want to grow old with. That's a better indication of your orientation and, it's okay to imagine more than one partner.

 

If you've been with guys - and bottomed - and watch gay porn, that's a pretty strong indication that you're either bi or gay. Certainly it says you enjoy sex with men, unless you absolutely hated the experience and wouldn't do it again. There's absolutely nothing wrong with having a same-sex attraction. Most of us on this forum do, that's what we're here for.

If you're having sex with men, I would strongly doubt you skew toward the straight end of the spectrum. None of my straight friends - even those curious enough to perhaps consider kissing a guy - would have sex with another guy. They find the idea repulsive because they're just not interested in guys at all sexually.

 

Did you enjoy the sex? You could be bi or heteroflexible, but you could be straight if you disliked it. Straight men experiment too, and any sexuality can like any kind of porn....

 

I tend to feel that if your preference is women and you have had sex with men then I would think that would have to be an attraction to men in order for that to happen especially to go so far as to have anal sex. Like some of the others have mentioned in their responses I would consider you to be bisexual. In my opinion...there is no way that I would go through the motions of having sex with a man if I am not enjoying it. Therefore, if you have had anal sex more than once then I would have to say that you do enjoy it...just saying...