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Do I have daddy issues ?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by thinkreal93, Nov 5, 2016.

  1. thinkreal93

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    Hey.
    I recently found out I feel something specific for older men. I'm taking about men around 35 or over (I'm 23). I feel drawn to their (typically) older features like, say, moustache, or a belly, or their middle-aged face. I want to (physically) come close to them and be intimate like that. There isn't a sexual urge behind it. It's mainly an intimacy urge which comes up in sexual situations with such men.

    I don't quite understand it. Is it some kind of daddy issue ? You could say it's because I was somewhat emotionally distant with my dad from childhood, but I just cannot attribute the feeling to some longing for intimacy with my dad. As a matter of fact, I never was interested in being close to my father or have something common with him.

    Has anyone experienced this ? If anyone could help explain this feeling, it would be great.