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Can I be "only physically" bisexual?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Garyroberts, Nov 7, 2016.

  1. Garyroberts

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    I love my wife and enjoy both the emotional & physical sides of our relationship eg. kissing, cuddling etc. When it comes to guys though, I love sexual contact but not kissing or other bodily contact. Come to think of it, when I meet a guy for sex, I'm not remotely interested in even talking, except for "sex chat".

    Is this normal?
     
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    That is completely possible yes. We all have different preferences, and it's not unusual to feel that way. I am somewhat similar. I don't really find guys romantically attractive, but I can imagine having sex with them and be aroused by that. But with girls I fall very much in love, but the sexual aspect isn't that big of a deal for me. So yes, that is normal, don't stress it :wink:
     
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    Yes. Well, there is no actual "normal" but yes, what you feel is completely valid. Completely common among many men that have an interest in both men and women. I am romantically and sexually attracted to my wife. And while I've never been romantically attracted to any man, I am definitely sexually attractive to some men.