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if you realized you were gay/lesbian while in a straight relationship....

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by gbxx33, Nov 13, 2016.

  1. gbxx33

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    how did that process go for you?
     
  2. johndeere3020

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    still working on it............
     
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    End the relationship. As soon as you're sure, do it. There's no point in letting a partner getting more and more attached to you if you know the relationship is doomed. Breaking thier heart may be heard but you have to keep in mind that you're doing the best thing for them in the end.
     
  4. gbxx33

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    johndeere3020, I wish you luck in the process!
    and RavenTheRat, unfortunately I have no idea. I'm nowhere near sure. Some days I think I'm straight, sometimes I think I'm bisexual, sometimes I think I could be a lesbian. I'm not sure if it's more due to my anxiety problems or an actual issue, which is why I made this post! I wanted to kind of get perspectives of other people and how they realized they were not straight while in a straight relationship, so I could kind of compare their situations to mine. :slight_smile: