Okay, i first thoughr i was gay when i had a dream about having sex with another guy, spdciffically with a friend. My the way, in advance i apologize for any typing errors:lol:. But in the dream, I waz incredibly horny and when i woke up i wish it would have gone farther. Prbably tmi but this is the only way i can put it. I realized that when i think about a guys sexual organ, i dont get all that horny. im so cinfused but have a crush on another guy currently . He is sooooo hot. I have had one crush on a girl but that crush ended when we got to know each other. IM SO SORRY FOR TMI:lol:but any advice or wisdom?
EC is pretty understanding of explicitness if it looks like you are honestly trying to explain something. Without some of those details, how could we help? So you do have a guy crush, but (thinking of) guy sex doesn't turn you on. Except in the dream. Now that already tells us something. (Me, I love everything about girls, but for guys it's mostly the organ. So I try not to break any guy hearts.) Most people will say that dreams and porn don't tell you much about your orientation: many straight people like gay porn and vice-versa. So (in case you might "test" yourself that way) that doesn't lead us very far. Some people will split things up into romantic (gay/straight/bi) and sexual (same division) and so we get 9 categories; I personally think this is helpful but I know others on this forum will say differently. With this outlook, you sound like bi-romantic something-sexual. I am guessing (don't ask me how ) you are pretty young and it might be the best thing to "wait and see". Meet lots more people. You know you have only met a small slice of the world's people so far. What you like and want will become more clear with time. ---------- Post added 14th Nov 2016 at 05:39 PM ---------- Oh, another thing to think about is what is your crush like? Is it "I want to be like this person?" Or "I want to cuddle/kiss/jump this person?" The first one is not very connected with gay/straightness, but can still be pretty intense. Could be you.
Okay thanks! For a little more side info., i have tested porn and gay porn and neither have worked, i feel like there has ti be more emotion to it. I feel either gay or asexual. And i really hopeim gay because i dont want to be asexual. I also find girls aesthetically pleasing sometimes, but guys can be cute, hot, really anything. I dont really find sex gross either, but just kind of turned on, and I thank you for any advice you can give me.
My crush is more like a sexual crush whileon the side, I wouldnt mjnd being that hot. ---------- Post added 14th Nov 2016 at 05:55 PM ---------- More of like a sex lean crush. I wouldnt mind being that hot though ---------- Post added 14th Nov 2016 at 05:55 PM ---------- i really need to learn how to use this website LOL
