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Am I Gay or Something Else?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by LostGirl90, Nov 21, 2016.

  1. LostGirl90

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    I am a woman sexually attracted to females. I can be attracted to men, but it is rare and fleeting. I feel like it is more of an appreciation for an exceptionally attractive male. Women, however, are gorgeous and always turn me on. I do not get along with girls very well though. I prefer the companionship of men. The problem is I can't ever get the romantic part to click with guys. I am a pretty emotionally detached person. I love my family, but I prefer being alone. I love my friends, but they annoy me. I can't see myself living with anyone and building something. I can, however, see myself having a forever friendship in two separate homes. On a base emotional level and a physical level, my attraction is for girls. I have no attraction for guys but feel like I would prefer a relationship with a guy. Idk what that means. I thought I was bisexual after thinking I was a lesbian in my early to late teens. Now, at 27, i am thinking it was just denial.

    Am I gay or something else?

    ---------- Post added 21st Nov 2016 at 10:49 PM ----------

    Sorry for the multiple posts. I thought I was editing my first post. I am new to this site. I am not quite sure how to navigate. I suppose I should hit preview first next time. Sorry again.
     
  2. ghostly

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  3. LostGirl90

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    Thank you for the link. That sounds exactly right.