When it comes to guys and girls I find myself acting two separate ways. When I openly flirt with a girl, granted this has only happened once, I feel free and in control. It's like there is no pressure. I can take the lead or follow hers. However, when it comes to guys I always feel like I'm the prey and they are the predator. As if they only want one thing from me, even if that may not be the case. In a sense I feel very vulnerable when a guy compliments me or flirts with me; and I do not like to feel vulnerable! I'm sexually attracted to both men and women, however, I don't know how to feel when a guy (who I think I might like) really lays the flirtation on heavy.
