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I'm confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by KYSS, Nov 27, 2016.

  1. KYSS

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    Hi there to all the people of the community!
    I'm actually a little shy so if I didn't introduce myself I apologize. But to the point.
    I'm a 24 year old male, I live in a kind of conservative family so I've never had the chance to really think much about it and didn't care much either in my teenage years, but lately I begun to care quite a lot about my sexual orientation as well as to think about it often.
    I always been introverted so I didn't date much if I did at all. But I always felt different to my peers in a weird way in school. Something I couldn't explain. I've never been sexually attracted to anyone nor girls or boys. But I've always appreciated the beauty of both girls and boys in a way of just staring and wanting to keep staring at that beauty forever, never laying a finger on it. I have almost 0 sex drive but I know that I still have a libido because I've masturbated and I can't say it's not a pleasant feeling. When I was younger I used to get off to regular porn but as I entered in my late teens and early twenties I switched sides because that turned me on more and was easier to get off. I like to see young guys doing stuff but only in a sense of just watching (that works for me) I can't see myself having sex with anyone not men nor women but I'm able to portray myself in a romantic relationship with both.
    So there's the thing I'm just a curious asexual or something more of a bisexual guy who is insecure about sex. Another detail is that I don't like when people talk too much about sex and with who they got laid it makes me a little uncomfortable and irks me a bit.
    Sorry if I made this long.
    I would really appreciate your answers.
    Thank you.
     
  2. beenthrdonetht

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    Well 24 is still young. (I know it's the most annoying thing to hear.) You'll find that the consensus on this site is that porn preferences are not very good indicators of your real life behavior. Straight people like to see bi sex, vice-versa. Sometimes the thing you would least do yourself is the biggest turn on. Go figure.

    The glib diagnosis for you would be bisexual (sort of theoretically) and aromantic. Just labels though. You have a physical sex drive. Although it sounds predictably pat, it's quite likely you will meet somebody who breaks the emotional logjam and feelings flow.

    Oh and about other people's sex bragging -- most people, from horny to icy, don't like it either. Stay that way.
     
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    Well 24 is still young. (I know it's the most annoying thing to hear.) You'll find that the consensus on this site is that porn preferences are not very good indicators of your real life behavior. Straight people like to see bi sex, vice-versa. Sometimes the thing you would least do yourself is the biggest turn on. Go figure.

    The glib diagnosis for you would be bisexual (sort of theoretically) and aromantic. Just labels though. You have a physical sex drive. Although it sounds predictably pat, it's quite likely you will meet somebody who breaks the emotional logjam and feelings flow.

    Oh and about other people's sex bragging -- most people, from horny to icy, don't like it either. Stay that way.
     
  4. ImNotYourMom

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    Thats funny im the same way except I cant romantically like males.