I'm going to move this over to the Sexual and Romantic Orientation sub-forum, where I think you'll get more views and advice. Perhaps you'd like to give us all some more background, so we can help you out! Don't worry - we're used to confusing and complex here.
Well Ive been attracted to guys for over a year and it seems I have lost interest in girls, where before I flip flopped from genders. I still think im bisexual, but not attracted to girls anymore.
Well, many bisexuals describe sexual orientation as fluid. Many of us have a much stronger 'preference' for one gender over the other and that preference can change over time. Many women tend to describe their sexuality as being more fluid that most men, but some men definitely experience that fluidity, as well. For myself, my 'preference' has gone back and forth to some degree over a period of decades. Of course, only you can actually know your own sexuality.
Well, if you have or have had the same romantic and sexual attraction to women that you now say that you have for men, it would seem to indicate that you are bisexual. Like I said, though, only you can actually know that. And, frankly, labels are pretty unimportant as long as you understand and accept your own sexual identity. You yourself said: Why do YOU think that?
Well i think im bisexual because i have had the ability to be attracted in the past, or maybe I was suppressed by societal norms, i think i only liked girls as a friend thinking more about it.
O.K. Both of those are possible. So, when you masturbate without using pornography, do you fantasize about both men and women or exclusively men?
