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Would This Work?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Asking, Dec 4, 2016.

  1. Asking

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    Hwy, sorry to bother, but I'm facing the pretty common crisis of Trans, Lesbian, or Straight. Would looking at explicit pictures help rule out the possibility of straightness? Thanks in advance. As you can see, I'm getting desperate.
     
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    Sorry, but looking at pictures doesn't dictate your sexuality. That is if you are talking about porn. Why do you think Trans? if I may ask?
     
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    Hi Asking,

    I agree with Rachyl that looking at pictures or porn is a poor indication of your sexuality. If you are wanting help in determining your sexuality without experimenting with actual people, you should look at these questions:

    1. When you masturbate without porn, do you fantasize about men, women, both?
    2. Do you have, or have you had, crushes on any girls? Guys?
    3. Do you ever think about wanting to kiss a girl you see, or wonder what it would be like to kiss her?
    4. Do you form strong attachments to girls as friends? If so, ever wonder what it would be like to be more than friends with them?

    I'm also a little confused by your seeming to include trans with sexuality. Someone who is transgender can be any sexuality as your gender has nothing to do with your sexuality. Being trans is about both your gender identity and gender expression, not your sexuality. Perhaps you meant bisexual? Do you think you could be attracted to both genders, or perhaps you see your sexuality as shifting from one to the other or sometimes fluid?

    If you can post more about your attractions to men and women, especially what you fantasize about without porn, then we may be able to give you better and more specific advice.

    Take care. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    I don't see how it would, especially if you're female. Studies show that women are different in regards to porn. Lots of straight women like lesbian porn, in fact, I know more straight women who like it than lesbians. Lots of lesbians like gay male porn, including myself. For me, It's not about how "hot" the actors are, but that the quality is usually a bit better scenery wise (which is pretty sad). I'm just looking for quality sex, and lesbian porn is too male gazy for me to be turned on by.

    And a lot of naked professional female pictures are a massive turn off for me as well. They look totally unrealistic, photoshopped, barbie girl like. Fuck that. I want a real looking girl. And you only see them in real life.
     
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    Sorry for the delay, so: Rachyl, I feel as though I'm more masculine and feel better when people mistake me for a boy, just seems right, and have attraction towards girls (not sure if it's fabricated, hence desperate questions online.) I pretty much want to be a boy. Thank you for the information and advice!

    I'm Gay, sorry for the lack of the clarification, I should have separated gender identity and attraction. I'm just 13 so naturally don't mastrubate yet, I'm crushing on a girl, I do fantasize about kissing them, and I do form strong attractions to girls as friends but don't really think beyond that.
    Thank you for the questions! They're very helpful!

    Creative mind, thank you too for a strong reference point. I could use it and did, thanks!

    All right, it has been decided: no. Thanks again!