I am a 21 year old man. To tell you right now I'm talking bad English. I currently work in the military, professional'm a soldier. I'm confused about my sexual orientation, and the reason is the following: As a kid I started to watch porn movies, and I remember that I was watching gay movies and had an erection. I watched and straight and lesbian, and also had an erection. This has not changed, but I wonder that men do not attract me in the least. I love watch the girls, and now I'm in love with a girl. But then, what means that with gay porn? Please respond. Sorry for my bad english
Hey sharkdingo, When you're young you can get sexually excited quite easily. Watching porn as you wrote about is not a good indicator of sexuality. Some straight guys get turned on by watching gay male porn. Even some lesbians get turned on by watching gay male porn. In your case, if you do not feel that you are romantically or sexually attracted to guys, you are most likely straight and you just find the excitement or perhaps the 'forbidden fruit' nature of watching male porn to be sexually stimulating. Nothing really out of the ordinary here from what you described. I hope that helps...
I noticed that when I smoke pot to be very concerned about this problem ... I think the only remedy that I find a girlfriend. So far, I was often crushed in the girls but I was refused for the reason that I did not really skilled... But im curently in hard love with one beautiful girl, she is in relationship with another guy but when im out with her, im blushing...hope that this mean something
Doesn't sound gay. Many straight people are turned on by gay porn, and vice-versa. It might mean that you could experiment with same-sex sex and enjoy it. But you sound mostly straight. Your experience/feelings are actually very common.
Hey sharkdingo, Only can really ever know your sexuality. With whom do you imagine spending your life and being happy? A man as your partner? A woman? Both? One decent indicator is who you fantasize about without porn. When you masturbate without porn, do you fantasize exclusively about women, exclusively about men, or about both? Another indicator is whom you have crushes on. Crushes generally cause some common involuntary biological responses in a person’s body such as their heart racing whenever they are around – especially if you make contact with them. Do your hands sweat when you are around them? Can you not stop thinking about them and do you imagine yourself being much, much closer to them than just friends? If you have had crushes, were they on women only? Or men? Or both men and women? Just some thoughts.
