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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by newyorkr, Dec 14, 2016.

  1. newyorkr

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    Hey everyone I'm Josh! I'm new here i joined because I've started to question my sexuality I think I might be gay/bi when I thought I was straight all my life. I'm still trying to figure it out so if anyone wants to talk I would appreciate it but otherwise I'm kinda just saying hi
     
  2. Patrick7269

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    Hi Josh, welcome!

    What kinds of things lead you to believe you may be gay? How does this make you feel so far?

    I know for everyone there's some kind of acceptance or adjustment process, but it's different for everyone. If you're comfortable with expressing your sexuality with a partner generally and you know what you're feeling during sex I think that goes a long way to finding out the answer. The problem comes when fear or self-judgment cloud the perception of what's going on inside.

    I've written another post on this here. I hope it might be useful.

    Again, welcome!

    Patrick
     
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    Hi Patrick thanks for the welcome!

    First off I haven't had sex with either gender and I've only dated girls so i really can't be sure about any of this yet but the the past few years I've been finding a lot of guys really attractive and I've been having a desire to be with them and have a personal and emotional connection with them but I haven't had the chance yet.