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Super confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Shasta, Dec 15, 2016.

  1. Shasta

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    I'm super confused about my sexuality.
     
  2. Shasta

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    I don't like labels

    I don't want to label myself just yet is that ok?
     
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    Heya,

    If you are confused about your sexuality, first take a deep breath and relax. This is about you and yourself, there is no need to rush to any conclusions.

    Think about your attractions. When thinking about women, do you feel attracted to them? Sexually and romantically? What about men, do you feel attracted to them? When you imagine yourself in a relationship, do you think you could be happy with a man or a woman, or you would be happy with any of them? When you fantasize, do you think about men or women?

    Stay calm. You don't need to pressure yourself or rush to any conclusions. Take your time.

    Also, labels are really confusing most of the time. There's no need to label yourself if you don't want to. You are who you are, and that's what matters: You don't need a single word that explains all your feelings.