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Can someone please help me

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by AFFM, Dec 21, 2016.

  1. AFFM

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    For a while now I have been experiencing some feelings towards girls(I feel funny when I touch a girl or I often feel weird while on the school's changing rooms and they are all changing clothing) , but I am not particularly interested in a boy or girl. I don't know if I'm actually attracted to girls or something else. I don't know how to explain what I'm feeling better then this and I hope someone can help me sort this out , I don't even know if this is the right place to be asking this.
     
  2. Creativemind

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    So, what gender do you fantasize about in general? Who would you like to sleep with? Date? Fall in love with?

    It could be the feeling is attraction or just discomfort
     
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    I don't know because I think of both genders the same way . And for a while I have been fantasizing about girls.
     
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    Could you be bi, maybe?
     
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    Hey AFFM,

    If you are confused about your sexuality, first take a deep breath and relax. This is about you and yourself, there is no need to rush to any conclusions.

    Like Creativemind said:

    Think about your attractions. When thinking about women, do you feel attracted to them? Sexually and romantically? What about men, do you feel attracted to them? When you imagine yourself in a relationship, do you think you could be happy with a man or a woman, or you would be happy with any of them? When you fantasize, do you think about men or women?

    Stay calm. You don't need to pressure yourself or rush to any conclusions. Take your time.

    Also, labels are really confusing most of the time. There's no need to label yourself if you don't want to. You are who you are, and that's what matter.