i dont feel any sexual/physical attraction to anyone regardless of who they define themselves as. and for me personally to be with someone i would have to feel an instant trust towards them and from there i guess i would start to like them?(im sorry if thats confusing)
I feel similar to you! I can see if people are attractive, but it doesn't do that much for me. I can only imagine dating someone if I feel really comfortable with them or if we have a good connection... I don't really understand why people pursue others based off looks.