Hi all, I have been questioning my orientation for the last couple of years and still have not come any closer to figuring out an answer. I am completely attracted to girls, 100%, but have always had lingering thoughts about guys. Right now I have an absolute head over heels crush for a guy I know and am really confused. I get turned on, sexually speaking from the thought of being with him, but watching gay porn usually doesn't do anything for me. On an occasion a couple of weeks ago, I felt extremely attracted to men and finished while watching gay porn very quickly. Since then I have been disgusted by the thought of gay sex. So to recap... completely sure I'm attracted to women, sometimes attracted to men, sometimes turned off by it. Thanks, Sean
Porn isn't really a very good indicator of sexuality- it does nothing for me either, and if I were to use it as the sole tool to 'diagnose' my orientation I'd think I was asexual! It sounds to me like you're bisexual, perhaps with more of a preference for women. Hope that helps!
