Hello, this is my first time here in EC in spanish (my native language) was so hard to find a good forum, so Im glad I found this!, Ok. I wanted to share my story and ask for advice. I started to be attracted to just one girl, when I was 13, and my parents thought it was like just a phase, and they even took me to see a dr., they were really wrong thinkin that was a disease or smth. So then, I changed from school and I had a boyfriend for 3 years, but I didn't really liked him, it was a strange feeling, even though we were a good couple. Nothing happened during those 3 years, and when I decided to end our relationship, I was sure that Didn't love him or want him like he loved me. Then I entered to my career and meet a friend. We started to play silly games calling each other "wife", we are now both 20, and we treat lovely way and that stuff. So I invited her to a date, but nothing happened, and I really wanted to kiss her so badly. When we talked she told me she was thinking about kissing me too. So, ok what do you think about our relation? (W/my friend) and if I haven't experienced anything with a girl, only being attracted, am I lesbian or just bi?
You sound like you could be a lesbian....especially if you haven't really been attracted to that guy. You don't need to experience anything with girls to identify as a lesbian, just being attracted is enough. I've been out as gay for 10 years and I still have yet to do anything with girls.
