Since I was in like 5th grade I've been sure I was bisexual. Then for 2 years i was in a FWB relationship with another girl who said she was straight but the didn't rally matter. And that only made me even more certain that I was bisexual (actually I wondered if I was gay.) But then I got into a pretty serious relationship with a guy and still was completely sure I was bisexual and I had no shame I have always told everyone I was bisexual but now.. Now I don't know. For some reason I started thinking about it and I just dont feel the same as I sued to. I dont Have massive crushes on girls all the time. I'm not that sexually attracted to females anymore. And I know this sounds stupid and pathetic but I'm actually scared of being straight. I don't want to be. I've always felt a stronger connection to women and now I'm just supposed to let that all go and say it was just a phase. That all those people I stood up against and said that my sexuality wasn't just something I was going through was actually right. OR how about the fact that so many other bi/gay/trans/pan/poly/ace/ore/etc came to me because I understood them. I told them they are who they are and nobody can change that and now I'm supposed to be like oh hey guess what I'm actually straight. Sorry guys yeah I mean I didn't know I was a fraud. So Forgive me? :icon_sad:
The only way in which you can truly be a fraud is to not be truthful to yourself . We can all have experimental phases (especially during our teen years). You should not be ashamed or scared in any way with your identity taking shape and solidifying as a heterosexual woman as you go though various experiences and advance in life through your teen years. Being or not being bisexual does not affect your worth one way or another That will not stop you from being a wonderful understanding human being.(*hug*) ---------- Post added 22nd Jan 2017 at 08:37 PM ---------- All in all, don't stress out if it turns to be one way or another, it will be fine either way, and you can tell whoever has a problem with that it is their problem, not yours