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Reflecting on male-to-male sex and Christians reaction

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by brainwashed, Feb 7, 2017.

  1. brainwashed

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    So I've been on this "OK I'm gay" thing for some time now. Lately I've been working on how I feel about male-to-male sex - mainly anal sex.

    At the advice of other ECs members I've been watching gay porn. With time I've been able to reflect on male-to-male sex. Notice I say reflect. Because of mid teen abuse I simply could not phantom male-to-male sex occurred. (Check other posts by me to see just how bad the abuse was. It was bad.)

    I'm finally saying, male-to-male anal sex is not bad in fact it seems many/some of the men in the video seem to be enjoying the act.

    On a long walk, it hit me. What is the BFD (big fucking deal) when it comes to male-to-male sex? Why all the fuss? More reflection. Is some "Christians" objection to male-to-male sex worth destroying large numbers of people? Like get a life.

    Notice I say Christians. The verdict is in, Christianity really does not give a damn. But some Christians set the agenda that destroys large numbers of people who happen to be gay. Get a fucking life ass holes.
     
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    In resume, the thing about sex is:

    1-Are you hurting/doing X to someone against their will?
    2-Is someone involved not ok with what is happening?
    3-Is someone involved not stable with their decisions? In other words, is the person agreeing with the act because that person is vulnerable and has been convinced to do something against their will?

    If the answer to all these questions are No, then it is fine, regardless if it is straight or gay sex. If everyone is ok with the act, then it is their business.

    It is a pity that so many people waste their time trying to convince others that what they do in their beds is wrong. These resources and time could be used to help people, instead of bothering and hurting innocents, just because they love who they love.