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Old 7th Feb 2017, 08:25 AM   #1
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OK you scrawny guys

I've posted about this before. I really like scrawny guys. So if you are not buff don't worry about it. I think scrawny is hot.
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Old 7th Feb 2017, 08:35 AM   #2
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

As long as it's not unhealthily scrawny.
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Old 7th Feb 2017, 10:51 AM   #3
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As long as it's not unhealthily scrawny.
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Old 7th Feb 2017, 11:00 AM   #4
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I just though yaaay and then Oh fuck cause my BMI still is too low -.-
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Old 7th Feb 2017, 06:22 PM   #5
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Yaaaaay. It's nice to hear something like this after being called too skinny and anorexic (BMI is about 19 btw, not underweight).
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Old 7th Feb 2017, 06:45 PM   #6
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I find too much muscle to be intimidating, and I know at least a couple other women who think the same thing. Not only do I find it easier to relax around skinnier guys, I also find it more becoming. For some reason I really like scrawny legs in particular, with small ankles!
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Old 7th Feb 2017, 07:19 PM   #7
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I have some muscle but my body is pretty slim. does that count? lol
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Old 8th Feb 2017, 07:29 AM   #8
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I have some muscle but my body is pretty slim. does that count? lol
Yep that counts.

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Thanks for the replies cause I felt I was the only one who in all honesty was turned off by hunks. Read this: I am not turned on by typical muscular gay guys.

(lol) Warning Label: If you'll gay, scrawny, male, watch out, I'll hit on you.

FYI in my teens, I was one of those scrawny kids, semi underweight, and looked younger than what I was. Now that I'm older, I really appreciate these body traits which I still have. I look 10 to 15 years younger than I am and I'm still scrawny - no pot belly for instance.
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Old 8th Feb 2017, 07:53 AM   #9
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I have what is called a swimmers body. I'm lean and athletic. Does this count? lol
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Old 8th Feb 2017, 11:41 AM   #10
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

Good to know. In guys I don't care if you're scrawny or athletic it's my type. I kinda like those slightly gay dudes with good style and maybe guyliner. While huge guys can be very hot I'd rather be "the masculine one".
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Old 8th Feb 2017, 11:41 AM   #11
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I have some muscle but my body is pretty slim. does that count? lol
Yep that counts.

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Thanks for the replies cause I felt I was the only one who in all honesty was turned off by hunks. Read this: I am not turned on by typical muscular gay guys.

(lol) Warning Label: If you'll gay, scrawny, male, watch out, I'll hit on you.

FYI in my teens, I was one of those scrawny kids, semi underweight, and looked younger than what I was. Now that I'm older, I really appreciate these body traits which I still have. I look 10 to 15 years younger than I am and I'm still scrawny - no pot belly for instance.
xD I was scrawny too but I changed that pretty fast. I knew I was trans before I "knew I was trans" if you know what I mean. By the time I was 11, I worked out a lot in hopes to lessen the chances of having a feminine figure since I knew pubety was around the corner.....And I was afraid to tell anyone what went on in my head
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Old 8th Feb 2017, 01:47 PM   #12
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I've always preferred lean and slim body types in men (little hair; think twink).
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Old 10th Feb 2017, 07:26 AM   #13
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

aH finally some people agree with me. My friends always joke around about how I don't find all the mainstream celebrities cute and how I lean towards "nerdier" looking guys. Another thing I've noticed people (mainly women) are self-conscious about are lips, but I personally prefer thinner lips.
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Old 10th Feb 2017, 07:50 AM   #14
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...... but I personally prefer thinner lips.
OMG don't get me going on guys lips. Ohhhh, cold show time!
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Old 11th Feb 2017, 12:17 AM   #15
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I'm skinny, it's definitely nice to read this.
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Old 12th Feb 2017, 10:05 AM   #16
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I have what is called a swimmers body. I'm lean and athletic. Does this count? lol
Yup that counts. I tried out for the swim team one time. I was not fast enough.

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I'm skinny, it's definitely nice to read this.
Ya you know I just got tired of people thinking you've got to have muscles to be gay. I detest this stereotypical image of gay men. Aside from the fact that this is not my preferred body type.
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Old 12th Feb 2017, 04:06 PM   #17
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Re: OK you scrawny guys

I find the "skinny" type attractive being skinny or lean myself. hyper muscular guys are a complete turn off for me. I'm sorry but it's just not my thing...

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Old 15th Feb 2017, 07:28 AM   #18
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....... hyper muscular guys are a complete turn off for me. I'm sorry but it's just not my thing...
I'll second that. Complete and total turn off. Nata. Nope. Nothing. Does not even get my mid section excited.
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Old 15th Feb 2017, 10:27 AM   #19
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I find the "skinny" type attractive being skinny or lean myself. hyper muscular guys are a complete turn off for me. I'm sorry but it's just not my thing...

Yeah, skinny lean guys are hot and I too don't like hyper muscular guys.

Hyper muscular women on the other hand...
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Old 17th Feb 2017, 08:32 AM   #20
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Yeah, skinny lean guys are hot .......
Lol, understatement.
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