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Im unsure about my sexuality.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Iamsolo, Feb 20, 2017.

  1. Iamsolo

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    So pretty much I'm out of the closet as gay to my family and some of their friends ever since I developped a massive crush on my same-sex friend, and although I'm kind of aroused by thinking of sex with men, im not sexually aroused by any male body. And to add I'm kind of attracted to women in general.

    I'm really confused, help.
     
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    Hi Let me ask have you had sex wit both men and women or one or neither ?
     
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    I'm underage... So no.
     
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    Hey Iamsolo,

    What do you mean when you say that you are "kind of attracted to women in general"? Are you romantically and sexually attracted to women or just attracted to them as close friends?
     
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    Ah ok well there are many support groups in LGBT communities for underage guys questioning I suggest you seek them out as sexuality is complicated yet very individual
     
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    I mean as in a little bit sexually only, not romantically at all.
     
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    Hey Iamsolo,

    Have you considered the you might be bisexual? If you are interested, there are two YouTube videos that you might want to watch:

    Are You Bisexual - Quiz (Am I bisexual)

    How to Tell if You're Bisexual - Is Bisexuality a Choice?

    Perhaps those videos can help you shed some light on your sexuality.

    Regardless, you are young and don't really need to worry so much about trying to label your sexuality. Your body knows what you are attracted to, so if you just listen to the signals it is sending, you'll figure out your sexuality in time.

    Just some thoughts.:slight_smile: